Community Page

Welcome to the NVC Santa Cruz Community Page!

The community page provides a unique opportunity to make life more wonderful.

We hope that people will use this forum to find practice groups, post events, announcements, requests, NVC stories (Giraffe Tales) or other things they would like to share. We expect that it will grow and evolve over time.

To list your announcement or request, or provide feedback and suggestions, email us.
Please note: the appearance of any posting in this Community Forum does not imply endorsement or agreement by Nonviolent Communication Santa Cruz.


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Announcements and Requests

Soquel practice group

Meets on 2nd and 4th Wednesdays from 7:30-9pm at Soquel Dr. and Park Ave

Call Maghi Thurlow 425-3109

Santa Cruz practice group

Meets on 2nd and 4th Thursdays from 7:00 to 9:00 near Emeline Avenue

contact Cynthia Adams, cynthiapond@cruzio.com, 831-423-3156

Santa Cruz/ Felton

Open to new members: Facilitated practice group that meets on the 2nd and 4th Mondays of each month from 9am to 11am. Meetings are at a house between Santa Cruz and Felton.

Please contact Kara Bowman at 438-5460 or bowman@got.net for more information.

Moss Beach

Meets most every Tuesday from 7-8:30pm at a home near the JV Fitzgerald Marine Reserve. All levels are welcome, no charge, no commitment to a specific number of times. Please feel free to call me with any questions...

Contact Janine at (650)563-9177

Monterey
Practice Group

WEDNESDAYS, 6:30 to 8:30pm in Seaside

THURSDAYS, 6:30 to 8:30pm in Monterey

Contact Eve Gage,
831-521-6679 evehello2u@yahoo.com

Santa Cruz Neighborhood practice groups

For information about joining a practice group with a consistent membership and meeting schedule, contact Jeremy.

email Jeremy - Jeremy@nvcsantacruz.org

San Jose
practice groups

meets Thursdays 7-9 PM

email Kathleen

Redwood City
practice groups

meets Tuesdays 7-9:30 PM

email Ursula

Sunny and Open Space for Rent at the Center for Compassion

500 sq. ft. light, open, carpetted room for classes, yoga, meetings. Kitchen and parking. Small counselling room also available. Affordable and Convenient.

(831) 440-8979 or
email Laurie

 

Housing Requests/Queries

NVC Santa Cruz is looking for housing for folks w/ limited incomes visiting from out of town for upcoming non-residential retreats. Contact Jeremy at the office (831 440-8979) if you would like to start a dialogue about use.

 



Services

Career
Planning
and Development

Advance your career, business or life with professional development.
Includes initial free one-hour consultation (value $110) examining career assessment, exploring career options, determining your focus, marketing yourself and career management. Consultations by phone or in person since 1987.

David Thiermann
1725 Seabright Ave.
Santa Cruz, CA 95062
831-427-2677 Local
1-800-682-8859 Toll Free

santacruzuniversity.com
guru@cruzio.com

Compassionate Legal Divorce

Compassionate legal help for divorce, including property division and ongoing child support matters. Mediating attorney trained in NVC. Joint mediation sessions to help you compassionately navigate your transition.

Monica Vantoch, J.D.
Mediating Attorney
406 Mission St, Suite J
Santa Cruz, CA 95060
(831) 429-4210
santacruzmediation.com

 

Events

Introducing The Transformation Game
with Sharon Took-Zozaya
Saturday, Feb 4, 2:45-4:15pm
@ The Center for Compassion, 225 Rooney Street, Santa Cruz

What is the Transformation Game?
It is a learning and sharing tool designed to mirror and invoke the kinds of personal growth and spiritual development that can happen over a longer period of time. It started at the Findhorn Foundation, and is now used around the world. The Transformation Game illuminates patterns, offers insights towards new directions, and supports change and transformation…. It's an effective way to clarify important issues, resolve conflicts, and creatively enhance relationships.
Read more - see flyer on the web.

Process Painting Classes with Maghi Thurlow
Saturdays Feb. 18th and 25th 10am to 1pm
Downtown Santa Cruz
maghi@deeplycalm.com (831) 425-3109

Discover freedom to explore, express, and play!
"For many years I've been telling myself I'm not an artist and I'm not creative, so every time I've attempted to paint, the critical voice has turned it into an unpleasant experience. Painting under Maghi's gentle guidance, I was able to be free to connect with my own source of inspiration without judgment or criticism. With the emphasis on the process, I could let go of outcome and just be with the paper and paint." - Christine King

http://deeplycalm.com/index.php/process_painting/

Join a Practice Group:

Without a trainer:

See Announcements and Requests at left for listings of current groups

Commitment for new groups with a trainer
Our plan is for a NVC trainer to meet with new groups for 4 weekly meetings. We ask that participants commit to 5-6 weeks total, the last 2 meetings without the trainer. (Cost for the trainer averages $80 per person in a group of 8 people). Our hope is that the groups will decide to continue in some fashion after the 6 weeks.  Of course, the group may invite a trainer to spend time with the group at any point.

Format
A format that many people enjoy is one in which group members bring situations from their lives that they would like to get clearer about. Members of the group empathize with the person bringing a situation, guessing at that person’s needs. Sometimes a role-play is helpful. Click here to download “Guidelines for Practice Groups” that will give you an idea how to this type of group works best.
Another possibility is to follow the format in the Nonviolent Communication Workbook, developed by Lucy Leu. This book has exercises that the group can follow and is available in our bookstore.

For further information or to put out a call for a new group, contact Jeremy
If you’d like to list your group on this page, e-mail Jeremy.

 

 

 

“[NVC] provides us with the most effective tools to foster health and relationships." - Deepak Chopra

Nonviolent Communication book cover

Learn more about Marshall's book, and read a sample chapter (external link).

Learn more about basic NVC concepts from the international Center for Nonviolent Communication:

  • The NVC Model: a diagram

  • Feelings Lists: a list of feelings when needs are and are not satisfied

  • 10 things we can do to contribute to internal, interpersonal, and organizational peace